Forgiveness is the key to personal freedom

What do we do when one has hurt you?
One that we have trusted and cared about in your life!

What do we do when life hits we blindsided and pulls you down so fast that we almost lose your breathe, not to mention your sense of reality?

Do we become a new friend of negative thinking and allow hate, disgust, bitterness even resentment to take over your thoughts?
I am here to tell you, " DO NOT do that! '

Don't allow negative thinking to hold you down under that weight of mistrust and desire to hurt back. It will be a very long road to nowhere fun. Happiness isn't at the end of that road!
The only thing that you'll find is a need to avenge your pain and sorrows. We will be tricked into thinking that to hurt back is only way to find closure or some sort of justice.

Again I am here to tell you, " DO NOT do that! '

There is not a person on earth that has not experienced mistrust, criticism or deception in one form or another. Whether it be from a partner, child, co-worker, girl-friend or even a neighbor. When one has been hurt by a close trusted person, that hurt goes into places deep inside of your heart. It's a hurt that is almost unbearable and we feel like your life has come close to an end.
If we give into that hurt and allow it to consume your thoughts, we will fall into a very ugly world of wanting to somehow pay back that person in either the same level of hurt or even a deeper hurt.

I have experienced and witnessed situations where many people including myself have allowed negative thoughts to control and blur their thinking. It only ended up in disaster, ranging from divorce, suicide, murder, even verbal slander which we all know has its own
way of causing a very irreparable wound.

The only way to survive a mistrust is to take a step towards a positive remedy and that my dear readers is to learn to forgive.
To be able to forgive is key that unlocks the doors to a
new world, a positive world.
To be able to let old hurts go and move forward in YOUR
life is a must in this closure.
The newness of thoughts once forgiveness has been reached is what you are striving to achieve.
This is your goal.
A life without goals is like a life without purpose.
In order to get to that point, one must learn how to forgive.
Through practice and consistent positive actions and thoughts, your mind will eventually open up and allow forgiveness. Once we have decided to reach out and forgive, we will immediately feel weight lift. We will feel immediate results of freedom.

To hold onto hurts and negative memories will only result
in further hurting one person and that person is YOU!
In any emotional trauma, to hold onto the nightmares and memories only creates a new abuser, that being our own selves.
Forgiveness is but a jumble of letters, it's a mere word. The
action of this word is vital key involved in finding this new
freedom.
It's through an acceptance of a negative situation that has happened and is over and a commitment or decision to let it go forever, that'll help you to learn how to replace power of that negative trap.
It's also imperative to work on freeing yourself as quickly as
possible. The longer you dwell and hold onto hurt and mistrust, farther and more out of control we will become from reaching forgiveness.
One more very important thought that will help we is, that by forgiving and moving on, in no way does this mean that what has happened to you wasn't a wrong doing or that person that has hurt we should be free of guilt. Also, this positive move forward through forgiveness does not mean that we are excusing or reducing action against you.
What it does mean is that you're allowing yourself freedom to take control of your thoughts and move forward.
You're identifying with fact that your act of forgiveness is
for YOU not other person involved.
We have replaced your position as victim and prisoner which removes power of opposing person and event that caused so much despair.
We have taken your right of choice and have moved toward a healthier, happier pattern of thoughts which will create freedom to live!

Remember, your choice to forgive has no bearing on how
other person reacts, thinks or chooses to live. The choices we
make are for YOU and your happiness alone and for the freedom of thought.

Keep moving forward!
~D~

 

 

 

 

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